Frequently asked questions
Answers about Lagnora: who it is for, how family involvement works, identity verification, referrals, privacy, and what early access means today.
What is Lagnora?
Lagnora is a serious relationship and marriage platform for South Asians living in Europe. Individual choice comes first: you decide who you speak to and how quickly things move. Family, culture and tradition can have a place in the process when you choose to involve them.
Who can join Lagnora?
You must be at least 18 years old and legally able to enter into a marriage or a committed partnership in your country of residence. During the early-access phase, membership is limited to residents of the EU/EEA, the United Kingdom, Switzerland and Norway.
Is Lagnora a dating app?
Not in the casual sense. Lagnora is built for people looking for a serious relationship or marriage, so the experience is designed around intent and conversation rather than swipe culture.
Is Lagnora only for Indians?
No. Lagnora is for South Asians living across Europe. Members come from different backgrounds, languages, traditions and levels of religious practice, and our community guidelines are explicit that curiosity is welcome while ranking or belittling people for those differences is not.
Can my parents or family use Lagnora?
Family involvement is optional and member-controlled. Through the Family Circle you can invite trusted family members when you choose, and they can see only the specific items you grant them, for as long as you grant them.
Does my family control my profile?
No. Your profile, your conversations and your decisions remain yours. Family members you invite can support, suggest and ask questions where you allow it, but the decision stays with you.
How does identity verification work?
Identity and age verification is part of member onboarding: to become a discoverable member you confirm your identity and age with a government ID and a selfie through Veriff, our identity-verification provider. We store the verification outcome and a minimal audit record rather than keeping raw documents longer than needed.
Does verification guarantee a member's intentions?
No. Identity verification helps reduce impersonation and misuse, but it cannot guarantee a member's intentions, behaviour or relationship status. Use your judgement when interacting with someone new, and meet in a public place the first time.
Can divorced or widowed members join?
Yes. Lagnora is designed for people approaching relationships with clarity, respect and long-term intent, whether that is a first marriage or a new chapter after divorce or loss. Members are asked to be honest about where they are, and no path is ranked above another.
Where is Lagnora available?
Lagnora is built in the Netherlands for South Asians living across Europe. During early access, membership is limited to residents of the EU/EEA, the United Kingdom, Switzerland and Norway. Which cities and communities we open next depends in part on where waitlist interest comes from.
Is Lagnora available on iPhone and Android?
Lagnora is currently an invite-only beta on iOS and Android. Join the waitlist, verify your email and choose iPhone, Android or both. We then prepare your beta access and send one Lagnora install email for the device or devices you chose.
How does referral sharing work?
After you confirm your email address and choose your phone, you get a personal share link. It records referral attribution so we can understand how people discover Lagnora. The link is not a sign-in, not a beta invitation, and it does not guarantee admission, priority, a reward or a credit balance.
Are there paid features or credits in the beta?
No. Nothing is for sale in the current invite-only beta. Members receive free Beta Credits for testing selected features, such as extra introductions; they cannot be bought, transferred or exchanged for cash. If paid digital features are introduced later, the price and applicable purchase terms will be shown before you buy.
How is my privacy protected?
We collect only what the service needs and tell you why at the moment we ask. Member data is stored on DigitalOcean in Amsterdam (AMS3) with Frankfurt (FRA1) as the secondary EU region. We never sell or rent personal data. Analytics run on Plausible, which is cookie-free, EU-hosted and stores no personal data. Two processors are outside the EU and we say so rather than bury it: Resend sends your sign-in code and stores message metadata in the United States under the EU Standard Contractual Clauses, and Firebase Crashlytics processes crash reports on Google infrastructure in the United States. Our privacy policy sets out the GDPR legal bases we rely on, the complete list of what we collect today, and the rights you can exercise at any time.
How do I report inappropriate behaviour?
Use the report tools if something feels unsafe, abusive, deceptive or inappropriate. You can report from a profile, Discover, Introductions or a conversation, where you can attach the messages that concern you. Block anyone you do not want further contact with. Please do not retaliate against someone for reporting or declining contact. You can also write to support@lagnora.com.
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